Sunday, November 25, 2018

November 2018 Newsletter

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      The Holidays can be a time of mixed emotions for many people.   Some may be grieving the loss of a loved one, while others may be grieving being alone. Some may be dreading the family time with extended family members due to unhealthy relationships and some may be looking forward to it because of healthy relationships.  Wherever you find yourself on the emotional scale this season, remember all feelings are valid.  It is what we do with those feelings that matter.  If the emotions are sadness or anger, feel it for a moment and then make a plan to change things so you feel less of that in the future.  This plan will likely involve setting new boundaries with others.  You can ask Archangel Gabriel to help you communicate these boundaries in a firm, yet caring way and to help others understand them.  If the plan involves lessening your grief, think about ways to honor that person or invite  happy memories into the season. If you are happy about the Holidays, recognize that and count your blessings.  
      No matter what you feel this Holiday season, please do something to spread joy to others.  This does not have to be anything big or expensive.  It can be something as simple as sharing time with a neighbor who had little or no family around, helping someone with their groceries (be on the lookout for Moms of young children who may be frazzled from life and help her load her groceries into her car, they are often overlooked, but I'm sure would appreciate the help), or any of a million different things that could make a difference in someone's life.  Often we think helping has to be a big thing, but the reality is sometimes something small like taking 5 minutes out of our day to help someone is huge in the other person's world. Sometimes a small gesture of kindness is enough to make someone smile for the rest of the day or longer, especially when they are struggling.  Happy Holidays to you and I ask the Angels to help them be filled with joy & peace for you!
Message from the Angels
The Angels want you to know now is the time to look within yourself and truly believe in yourself.  They say you have the power to co-create whatever you desire when you ask them for help with faith.  They are by your side, waiting for you to ask for their assistance so they can make your dreams come true.  Listen to your intuition and they will guide you along the way instructioning you on how to manifest your dreams into reality.  You are more powerful than you usually give yourself credit for and the Angels say now is the time for you to recognize this and act on it.  They are waiting to bless you once you show you have faith in yourself.  If you are at a point where you can't show a lot of faith in yourself, remember they are by your side helping you and lean on the faith that the Angels have your back.  2019 is around the corner, but the Angels say start making changes now so you can have the best year imaginable not only in 2019, but from now going forward.

Crystal Corner


It’s Crystal Clear Sunday! Dalmatian Jasper is a great calming stone. Use Dalmatian Jasper when you are feeling down and out.  It is a great pick me up stone. Because of its Black Tourmaline inclusions it can dispel negative energy and protect the user from harm.  It is also a great stone to use with animals, especially the more anxious ones.

Information You May Not Know
I have a Facebook group called Angels Of Light.  Members of this group get a weekly in depth general card reading, daily mantras or affirmations, Angel information, crystal information, and other information to help you on your journey, as well as early bird opportunities for promotions and other goodies.  The members of this group are awesome people and very supportive of one another, so it gives you a place to share your triumphs and ask for support when needed as well.  For an annual energy exchange of only $20, you can be part of this awesome group! Go to Facebook and put "Angels of Light"in the search bar and click on "request to join". You will be prompted to enter your email address so an invoice can be sent to you for the energy exchange.

Upcoming Events
I am available for readings online, by phone, video chat, and in person at my office or at events.

In Person Readings at Events:

Wednesday, November 28th from 5 PM - 8 PM
Sip 'N Shop with Psychics 
Courtyard By Marriott
1251 Hurffville Rd
Deptford, NJ 08096

Sunday, December 2nd from Noon - 3 PM
Sip 'N shop with Psychics at Glassboro Yoga
227 Rowan Blvd
Glassboro, NJ

Wednesday, December 5th from 5 PM - 8 PM
Sip 'N shop with Psychics
Courtyard By Marriott
1251 Hurffville Rd
Deptford, NJ 08096

Thursday, December 6th from 5:30 PM - 9:30 PM
4th Annual Franks & Beans Events Women's Shopping Expo
Beneficial Bank
1901 Route 70 E 
Cherry Hill, NJ
(You can get readings here even though it is a shopping expo)

Wednesday, December 12th from 5 PM - 8 PM
Sip 'N shop with Psychics
Courtyard By Marriott
1251 Hurffville Rd
Deptford, NJ 08096



Check out the Monthly Events Blog Posts to see where I will be each month!

Thursday, November 22, 2018

December 2018 Events

Upcoming Events
I am available for readings online, by phone, video chat, and in person at my office or at events.

In Person Readings at Events:

Sunday, December 2nd from Noon - 3 PM
Psychics, Shopping, and Yoga
227 Rowan Blvd
Glassboro, NJ

Wednesday, December 5th from 5 PM - 8 PM
Sip 'N shop with Psychics
Courtyard By Marriott
1251 Hurffville Rd
Deptford, NJ 08096

Thursday, December 6th from 5:30 PM - 9:30 PM
4th Annual Franks & Beans Events Women's Shopping Expo
Beneficial Bank
1901 Route 70 E 
Cherry Hill, NJ
(You can get readings here even though it is a shopping expo)

Wednesday, December 12th from 5 PM - 8 PM
Sip 'N shop with Psychics
Courtyard By Marriott
1251 Hurffville Rd
Deptford, NJ 08096




Tuesday, November 6, 2018

Let Go

     There are a lot of things we will need to let go of throughout our lives.  These things may be thoughts, ideas, beliefs, material objects, and even people. Sometimes God will remove these things for us and sometimes we need to release them ourselves.  If you have something in your life that no longer serves you, release it so you may be free and God can give you something better.
     First, I would like to discuss releasing material objects that no longer serve you.  As someone who has moved multiple times, I can tell you one of the many times you will appreciate not holding onto things that no longer serve you will be the days surrounding moving day. Not only will you be packing and unpacking less, but you or the moving company will have less boxes which means not only easier on someone's back, but easier on your budget when it comes to the size of the moving truck and the moving help if you hire someone to help you unload the truck.
     In the book by Marie Kondo, "The Life Changing Magic of Tidying up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing", she talks about if something no longer gives you joy, you should discard it.  Just a quick side note: No you can't get rid of your vacuum if you dislike running it.  Lol.  Although you may not enjoy using it, it does give you a clean home which leads to joy.  If within your means, you can get a new vacuum you prefer to use over your current one.  The same thing applies to other cleaning items and cooking supplies.
     I realize some things have sentimental value. Marie Kondo states in her book, if someone has given you a gift, but you have no intention of using it, it has already served its purpose and you can discard it. She states that it served its purpose to bring you joy when the gift was given to you, as it was the thought behind it, not the actual gift. Thrift stores welcome things in good condition which no longer give you joy.  I am sure there are a lot of moms out there with tons of kids' pictures and other things. When my girls were younger I would take a picture of their drawings or gifts to me and keep them in a digital file. It takes up very little room on a computer and when I get old my children won't have to go through the multiple drawers of cards and pictures from multiple children like I did when my Mom moved into a senior complex.  I continue to keep their pictures/drawings on digital files even now.
     Sometimes we will have to let go of beliefs that limit us.  These beliefs may be part of a religion we grew up in or may be a result of society's conditioning.  If they limit our thinking in any way, including limiting our ability to believe we can achieve anything we desire, we must release those beliefs.   They are not serving us, and therefore should not be part of our lives.  This can be a difficult process and is definitely one that requires reflection about what you believe, what you know, and what you think you know but are actually unsure of.  Just like beliefs that no longer serve us, if we have any self-defeating ideas or thoughts, we must release them as well.  We must silence the voice in our head as well as the voices of others who tell us we cannot succeed.  Only joy should be allowed in our lives, which means releasing self defeating thoughts or ideas.
     Occasionally an idea that is good in one moment, may down the line no longer be good for us.  We must periodically evaluate our lives and see if an adjustment needs to be made in our path.  This does not mean we made an original bad decision (although that may be the case on rare occasions).  It just means the situations has changed, such as life does, and the original idea is no longer serving us, so we must release or adapt the original idea.
     Finally, I would like to discuss letting go of people.  Again, sometimes God will remove the people from our lives who are not for our greatest good.  Often, we will have to remove these people from our lives ourselves as part of our learning process.  This is hardest when the people we must let go of for our own emotional and mental health are family, close or long time friends, or romantic partners.  If the people in your life are constantly belittling you or making you feel worthless, useless, or anything less than the wonderful person you are, you must limit your  time with them considerably and have a conversation with them about how their comments make you feel.  If they can't change their comments and continue to have negative, demeaning things to say about you, it may be time to remove them for your lives completely. While this is harder with family members because society tries to tell us we have to put up with bad behavior from family, it is still doable.  Setting boundaries with family members and removing them from your life when necessary can actually help you find people in your life to call family.  Family of origin is not the only definition of family.  If you look for it and allow it, you can find friends who will be like family, possibly even more supportive than family depending on the situation.
     Finding true friends and healthy romantic partners can be a challenge for some people.  If you keep you life positive, again keeping only what brings you joy, finding true friends and romantic partners will be easier.  This is not to say it will be a quick process, but definitely an easier one.When we stop trying to find what other people think is right for us, and focus on how we feel when interacting with a certain person, then we will intuitively know who should and should not be in our lives as part of our inner circle.  Sometimes people fit in our lives/circle for a while, but then we change (hopefully through personal growth), they change, or both people change and that person may not fit well with us any more.  This does not mean the person is now a bad person, you both may have just served your purpose in one another's lives and it's time for you both to move on.  When you let go in situations like these, it can be difficult and filled with tough emotions, but as you follow your intuition and guidance from the Angels, you will be Divinely supported and will receive blessing after you release the person.   Allow yourself to release any fears of loneliness or financial insecurities that may be holding you hostage in an unhealthy relationship.  Again, as you focus on what is best for your greatest good, you will be divinely supported and guided.
     Whether you are releasing ideas, thoughts, beliefs, material objects, or people, letting go allows God to give you even better things and people in your life.  God does not interfere with free will, so you have to make the choice to let go of what doesn't serve you.  Depending on what, who, and how much you let go, there may even be a party to celebrate your independence in the Spirit World/Heaven.  Lol.  God and the Angels have more and better waiting for you than anything you can imagine, so let go of what and who no longer serves you and welcome in the blessings waiting for you.
Love & Light,
Margaret Phillips

Tuesday, October 30, 2018

Be Your Own Body & Spirit Guard

     Unfortunately in life, there are some people who are happy when they see others fail.  Because of their own issues, they feel what they think is happy when they see someone make mistakes or fail in their endeavors.  These types of people are usually gossipers who say bad things about others.  They also act different behind your back and try to drive wedges between you and others who may help you succeed.  It is important that you are mindful of who you allow in your circle and mindful of who you spend your time with.  Yes, there may be times when due to work commitments, you have no other choice but share physical space with someone like this.  At these times, be cordial to the other person, but do not let them into your inner circle.  Keep topics of conversations light even when discussing things with people in your circle at work situations where there is someone who may not have your best interests in mind.  Save the heavier topics for when you are in a safe space.  Those who truly have your back will understand when you say you don't want to discuss it now, but would appreciate their input at a later time.
     Stand up for you.  Create healthy boundaries and don't allow the naysayer to cross those boundaries.  If they bring up or try to pry into an off limits topic, just say something like "I don't want to discuss that at this time." It is your job to be the bodyguard of your body, mind, and spirit.  You must discern who has your best interests at heart,  who does not really care one way or another, and who would like to see you make mistakes or fail.  When you are able to discern who has your best interest at heart, you will know who to have in your inner circle and by keeping others out, you will be guarding your body, mind, and spirit.
     Don't let another's negative thoughts take up space in your head.  As you are on your path to success, you may encounter people who will say things like "How do expect to make that happen?" or "That's never going to happen for you".  Dismiss their statements and move forward knowing you are doing what you have been Divinely guided to do.  It is not important anyone but you and the Divine understand the why's and how's of your purpose. You don't even need to understand all the hows and whys, just put in the hard work, follow the Divine guidance along your path, and keep moving forward.  God will fill in the details along the way.  Keep guarding your body, mind, and spirit, and all will be well.
Love & Light,
Margaret Phillips


Saturday, October 20, 2018

October 2018 Newsletter

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Sometimes people think "I will never be as confident as ___".  Would you like to know the secret of having confidence in yourself?   Set a goal and take a small step towards that goal.  Congratulate yourself for doing it- no negative judgement allowed here, just an acknowledgement of joy for taking the first step and more acknowledgement if you did it well.  As you congratulate yourself, you will feel better, be more confident (even if only a little bit), and feel motivated to keep moving forward.  As you continue taking small steps to move forward and congratulate yourself , you and others will find yourself as more confident the more you do this.  You will look back several months and years later and realize how much you have grown!

Message from the Angels
The Angels want you to know that they have heard you prayers.  They want you to think of them as your partners to help you achieve what you need and desire.  As you look at them as partners and are open to receiving their assistance, everything will fall into place and your prayers will be answered.  As you keep moving forward and expecting miracles to happen, they will happen and you will be blessed. Remember to thank your Angelic partners for their help along the way and show extra gratitude when your desires are materializing and have materialized.  Some people may feel threatened by your sudden good fortune/blessings, but remember you deserve them because you sought for Divine help to accompany your hard work. Do not allow the attitudes of others affect your attitude at this time and do not listen to those who will tell you "that's never going to happen" or you can repel what  you want.

Crystal Corner
Angelite is a blue and white stone, though the white is sometimes less visible unless you look up close like in this picture.  Angelite is great from increasing communication with the Angelic realm. It is a calming stone and can reduce fear and anxiety. It can also help shield you from negative energies.

Information You May Not Know
I have a free Facebook group called Angelic Inspiration & Guidance.  In this group I do daily affirmations and inspirational messages, as well as other uplifting things.  This group allows members of the group to post inspirational quotes and things including artwork, poetry, etc. and ask for prayers when they need them.  This group is a nonjudgmental zone and has members from various spiritual paths and religions in it.

Upcoming Events
I am available for readings online, by phone, video chat, and in person at my office or at events.

In Person Readings at Events:

Private Readings at a Psychic Dinner
Wednesday, October 24th 5:30 PM - 9:30 PM
Beneficial Bank
1901 Route 70 E. Cherry HIll, NJ
Hosted by Franks & Beans Events
Here is link address for youto get a ticket:
http://www.franksandbeans.net/private-readings-psychic-dinner8/?fbclid=IwAR0cHsOP8I0ZUsFhDGZHDv4x-xAFBxX8RcKmtaDvT9HQ0W96HalB6mMdmGI

Sip 'N Shop with Psychics 
Thursday, October 25th from 5PM - 8 PM
White Horse Winery
106 Hall Street 
Hammonton, NJ

Halloween Treat Night at A Taste Of Philly
Monday, October 29th from 6PM- 9PM
A Taste of Philly Ice Cream Parlor & Coffee Shop
669 Grove Road
West Deptford, NJ 08086

ONLINE EVENT:

Healing with the Angels: How to Remove Negative Psychic Debris 
& How to Cut Etheric Cords Online Class
November 3rd at 7 PM on Facebook Live
This class is $25 payable through a paypal invoice before the class
Contact me at (856)449-9099 for more details or see my facebook page for this event:
https://www.facebook.com/events/170221713914548/

Check out the Monthly Events Blog Posts to see where I will be each month!

November 2018 Events

Upcoming Events
I am available for readings online, by phone, video chat, and in person at my office or at events.

Online Events:

Healing with the Angels: How to Remove Negative Psychic Debris 
& How to Cut Etheric Cords Online Class
November 3rd at 7 PM on Facebook Live
This class is $25 payable through a paypal invoice before the class
Contact me at (856)449-9099 for more details or see my facebook page for this event:
https://www.facebook.com/events/170221713914548/



In Person Readings at Events:

Sip 'N shop with Psychics
Thursday, November 8th from 6 PM - 9 PM
Summit City Winery
Glassboro, NJ

Sip 'N shop with Psychics
Wednesday, November 14th from 5 PM - 8 PM
Courtyard By Marriott
1251 Hurffville Rd
Deptford, NJ 08096

Sip 'N Shop with Psychics 
Wednesday, November 28th from 5 PM - 8 PM
Courtyard By Marriott
1251 Hurffville Rd
Deptford, NJ 08096

Thursday, October 18, 2018

October 2018 Events

Upcoming Events
I am available for readings online, by phone, video chat, and in person at my office or at events.

In Person Readings at Events:


Sip 'N shop with Psychics
Wednesday,October 17th from 5PM - 8PM
Courtyard By Marriott
1251 Hurffville Rd
Deptford, NJ 08096


Private Readings at a Psychic Dinner
Wednesday, October 24th 5:30 PM - 9:30 PM
Beneficial Bank
1901 Route 70 E. Cherry HIll, NJ
Hosted by Franks & Beans Events
Click on this link for your ticket:
http://www.franksandbeans.net/private-readings-psychic-dinner8/?fbclid=IwAR0cHsOP8I0ZUsFhDGZHDv4x-xAFBxX8RcKmtaDvT9HQ0W96HalB6mMdmGI

Sip 'N Shop with Psychics 
Thursday, October 25th from 5PM - 8 PM
White Horse Winery
106 Hall Street 
Hammonton, NJ

Halloween Treat Night at A Taste Of Philly
Monday, October 29th from 6PM- 9PM
A Taste of Philly Ice Cream Parlor & Coffee Shop
669 Grove Road
West Deptford, NJ 08086



Tuesday, October 9, 2018

Open Your Eyes and Truly See

     Sometimes if we are in a bad situation where we feel trapped we close our eyes as a defensive move.  We allow things to happen we shouldn't and may even pretend they aren't there.  As we go through our journey of life, we have different messages and things we are ready to see at different times. When we are ready to see things for what they really are, this is when acceptance, change, and growth occurs.  I believe this is especially true with domestic violence victims. 
     When I was married, there were many things I could not see at first because I wasn't ready to accept what had become of my life.  I had thought being married and having a caring husband would put my abusive childhood behind me and allow me to be happy.  Unfortunately, what my husband cared about was himself, and I missed all the signs because I wanted to believe my life had to have something better in store.   My husband would swear we had not had conversations I distinctly remembered having.  He would say things like "this isn't so bad" or "it can't be helped" or even "this is how it's supposed to be". Yes it was bad.  Yes it could be helped.  No it wasn't how it was supposed to be.  When you are and adult and have to move back in with your parents for a week until the next payday and take your husband and cats with you because through his addiction and addictive behaviors he had spent the money which should have been spent on heating oil, it is bad. He would keep me in a state of flip flopping.  According to him, most days I was making mountains out of molehills. Some days I was taking things too lightly.  Most of the time, I was not doing something or almost everything right or good enough for him.   He frequently belittled me, disrespected me, and made me think I was the one with problems.  My main problem was I did not have enough respect and love for myself to stop the abuse for more than a decade. 
      Thankfully, eventually through different situations, I was finally able to open my eyes and see what had really been going on.  I was able to see I wasn't the one with the majority of the problems.  Don't get me wrong, I was 21 when we were married and unsure of what a healthy relationship was, so I'm sure there were things I did wrong, but nowhere as many as he swore I did.  He contested the issue was with me because I wanted too much and wanted things to be perfect.  A home where the mortgage/rent is paid,  there is consistent heat in the winter, food in the fridge, and the ability to buy clothes when needed is not asking a lot, especially when we were both working full time. 
      After I left him, my eyes continued to be open even more. I was able to see where the pieces of the puzzle fit together, instead of looking at the picture on the puzzle box.and not know how to make sense of it.  A lot of the red flags I was too blind to see in the moment before and during the first few years of my marriage were blaring right in front of me. More importantly, I started to love and respect myself, realizing I did not deserve to be in abusive relationship. 
      I had a temporary speed bump/ trade off of sorts which lead to my second marriage, which ended after not quite 4 years as he was an abusive narcissist.  His abuse was more covert and more emotional and financial abuse.  I was aware the marriage would not be perfect, but I was hoping for a better situation.  Because of my circumstances at that time, I didn't want to see it how bad it could/would be. I hoped if I entered the marriage with good intentions, all would be well, which it wasn't.   
     As I worked with a therapist and read a lot of self help books after both marriages, I realized how valuable I was and realized that I was the only person who could make me happy. I also realized that God loved me and my life did have better things in store for me in the future, I just had to be patient, work on myself, and wait for Divine timing to align everything.  That timing is at work and continues to be at work.  As I continue to love and respect myself, my eyes are more open and I have good friends and a good life with my children.  I am able to work full time at my life purpose of helping others and it is an awesome feeling to be able to help people every day.  I don't allow those who don't know how to respect me or others take my time or be in my inner circle.  I try to keep my eyes fully open, so I may have the blessings waiting for me. 
     Are your eyes fully open? Do you truly love and respect yourself?  If not, are you ready to open your eyes?  Are you ready to start loving yourself? If you need help with changing your life for the better, contact me to set up an appointment for intuitive life coaching!


Tuesday, September 18, 2018

September 2018 Newsletter

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With fall approaching in the United States, I find myself thinking about change.  For a lot of people change is difficult and the idea of making changes in their lives can be like trying to lead a reluctant child away from an activity they are enjoying when it's time to go.  While as adults we most likely will not have temper tantrums and yell or break things, some people have inner tantrums of sorts when it comes to making changes.  They may reluctantly go along with the change, but display passive aggressive behavior during the change.  The may decide instead of embracing the change to push against it saying or thinking "I knew this was a bad idea/wouldn't work."  They may resist the learning experience and growth that comes with change.  Yes, change can be scary, but growth is wonderful and can give you additional peace.  If you have something in your life you wish to change, but aren't sure how to change or need additional support while making your change, please reach out to me and we can make a plan together to help you through your transition through life coaching.

Message from the Angels
The angels want you to remember life is about balance.  Take time regularly to make sure you are giving as well as receiving in equal or very close to equal amounts.  When you are out of balance with the amounts you give and receive, you are out of balance with the Universe and other parts of your life.  This can leave you feeling drained of energy, taken advantage of, and/or physically unwell.  The Angels also want to remind you to balance work with play as well.  They want you to allow your creativity to flow in whatever ways feel natural to you.  If you are unsure where your creativity lies, go try some new things until you find it.  Creativity is not just painting, it can be writing, designing, decorating, crafting, and many other things.  Keep trying until you find what makes your heart soar and then do it regularly to keep your mood elevated and your life balanced.

Crystal Corner



Amber is actually not a crystal or mineral, but an organic resin from prehistoric trees.  It has a beautiful sunny color to it and has been used since the Stone Age. It makes a great protective talisman as well as a renewal stone because of its life force.  It is good for drawing out physical pain and stimulating the body to heal itself. It absorbs negative energies and transforms them into positive energy.



Information You May Not Know
I have a Facebook group called Angels Of Light.  Members of this group get a weekly in depth general card reading, daily mantras or affirmations, Angel information, crystal information, Spirit Animal information, and other information to help you on your journey, as well as early bird opportunities for promotions and other goodies.  The members of this group are awesome people and very supportive of one another, so it gives you a place to share your triumphs and ask for support when needed as well.  For an annual energy exchange of only $20, you can be part of this awesome group! Go to Facebook and put "Angels of Light"in the search bar and click on "request to join". You will be prompted to enter your email address so an invoice can be sent to you for the energy exchange.



Upcoming Events
I am available for readings online, by phone, video chat, and in person at my office or at events.

In Person Readings at Events:

Sip 'N shop with Psychics
Wednesday, September 19th from 5PM - 8PM
Courtyard By Marriott
1251 Hurffville Rd
Deptford, NJ 08096

Sip 'N shop with Psychics
Thursday, September 20th from 5PM -8PM
Cedarvale Winery
205 Repaupo Station Road 
Swedesboro, NJ

Psychic & Healing Expo
Sunday, September 23rd  from 10 AM - 6 PM
Holiday Inn in Cherry Hill
2175 Marlton Pike West Cherry Hill, NJ

Autumn Goddess Retreat Festival
Saturday, September 29th from 10 AM - 6PM
Freedoms Foundations at Valley Forge
1601 Valley Forge Road
Valley Forge, PA

Check out the Monthly Events Blog Posts to see where I will be each month!

Tuesday, September 4, 2018

What do you see?

When you look in the mirror, do you see your physical self or feel your spiritual self?
For decades I would see my physical self or what my mind told me was my physical self. My father always belittled and abused me growing up to the point I had no self esteem. I remember at 15 years old being 5'10 and 110 pounds thinking and seeing in my altered view in the mirror that I was fat, just as my Dad had told me too many times to count. Believe it or not, when the pictures below were taken, my mind allowed me to only see the distorted view of an obese, miserable person. I was definitely miserable, but not obese.

I felt obese and miserable for a long time until as an adult I decided I was tired of hating myself. I began to look for the good things about myself. It was not an easy or quick process, but I overcame my need for others approval. When I was able to see my spiritual self and see my goodheartness, I no longer cared what others thought about me or how others felt I looked.
This was very important to discover in my early 20s as I had 2 car accidents in my 20s that left me mostly bedridden for months and caused me to gain a lot of weight. Divine timing was definitely at work because had I not had changed before those accidents, I can't imagine and don't want to think about what could have became of me.
Nowadays, if I decide to change something up and get a new haircut or even color my hair, it is a method of pampering myself, not trying to look better for others or for myself. I am happy with how I look because I mostly see my spiritual self and focus on that vision, not my physical self. I know the physical (more healthy) side of me will come when the timing is right as I continue to move forward with life changes on a Divine timeline, not a human timeline. Nowadays, the smile that rarely was seen when I was a teenager, flourishes.
If you are struggling with self esteem issues due to how you were treated in the past, know you can change how you see yourself. You can see yourself for the beautiful person you are! If you need help with that, please take advantage of my life coaching and/or hypnotherapy sessions or find someone who resonates with you to help you, No one deserves to be miserable when it comes to how they feel about themselves.