Wednesday, April 10, 2019

Tears and What They Really Mean

     Life can be overwhelming at times.  Family stress, work stress, financial stress all can take their toll. Sometimes when the pressure builds too much, we may feel like we want to scream. Sometime we feel like we want to cry or may even cry. 
    Most of us have been led to believe that crying is a form of weakness. When the tears flow, we may tell ourselves to stop crying or even reiterate to ourselves that crying is a sign of weakness.  
     If we are able to hold the tears back through the big trials, we may think we are weak, stupid, or crazy when the tears come when something which we believe should be insignificant forces the tears out. I believe in the adage, "There's no sense crying over spilled milk;" however, I also know most of the time the tears that come when milk is spilled isn't about the milk at all. It's usually about something bigger or even multiple larger things that you have been trying to handle. The something bigger may be things going on in your life currently, it may be from unresolved trauma, or it may be a combination of both.
     Some people only cry when the big trials come. There are other people whose tears come either for the small things or for multiple things. My point is no matter when the tears come, tears are NOT a sign of weakness, being crazy, stupid, or incapable of handling things. I am a firm believer of the quote, "tears are a sign of being too strong for too long."  So when you find yourself in tears, evaluate the situation and see if there is anything that needs to be addressed and address it if needed. Sometimes life hands us a lot to deal with and we just need to cry and that's okay.
     Remember: even Superheroes cry sometimes. :) Tears are not about weakness, but about releasing emotions that need to be released. Usually releasing the tears alleviates the pressure cooker feeling, so allow your release valve to open so you can have less stress and more peace. Don't worry about being strong for another person or how you think someone may perceive your behavior; just allow yourself to feel and express your emotions as they come, whatever and whenever they may be. 
Love & Light,
Margaret Phillips

April 2019 Newsletter

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Spring has sprung and the blossoming flowers remind us that a new season is upon us. Time passes and one season folds into another, just as the days fold into weeks which fold into months and years. This change of seasons may find you thinking about aging. Some people think about aging in a negative way. The best way to think about aging is to acknowledge the beauty of the aging process. The years of experience you have (and will have) came from what was probably at times difficult learning experiences. It is the learning experiences that have made you wise, and others will seek your wisdom as they need help.  When you hold positive thoughts about the aging process, you may glow with inner peace and wisdom. You may also feel younger than your chronological age and you will be more comfortable with yourself.

Message from the Angels
The Angels want you to know it’s time to leave an unhealthy situation. This situation will vary because there
are multiple people who will read this. For some of you, it means an unhealthy romantic relationship. For others, it means an unhealthy family relationship or friendship. And for some of you, it is time to start a new job with a work environment that is not toxic.
You have been praying about it, whether in an official prayer or just your thoughts and wonderings, and the Angels say the answer is to remove yourself from the situation as soon as possible. They say continue to pray and they will give you the strength you need to put the fear behind you. Make a plan to remove yourself from the unhealthy situation and then take action. Be prepared (if possible) for the speed bumps that may occur along the way, but don’t let the fear of “what if” keep you from leaving.
The Angels want you to know you are loved and supported by them, and all will be well as you change your situation. The Angels say you are too precious to stay in the toxic,unhealthy environment any longer and they want to bless you with peace. If you need extra courage, you can call on Archangel Michael for help.

If you are a victim of domestic violence, please contact a domestic violence hotline for help.
If you are in the US, call 1-800-799-7233 for the Domestic VIolence Hotline
If you are in the UK, call 0808-2000-247 for the National Domestic Violence Helpline

Crystal Corner
Rose quartz is a dusty pink in color. Rose quartz is good for attracting love of others and self-love. It can assist in restoring harmony in existing relationships. It also can enhance positive affirmations. Because it attracts self love, it is good to boost your self-esteem. You can carry rose quartz in your pocket, put it in your living room and/or bedroom, or even wear it in jewelry to help attract love to you from yourself and others.

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